“The city is so clean you can eat off the streets . . .” Mark kept telling us. Intrigued by their stories and haunted by their invitations, Christine, Mario, Rodrigo and I set out for an overnight trip. (We also had Victor to guide us since he had taken the bus to San Miguel a few days prior.)
When we arrived, Mark gave us a tour of their modest five bedroom home, including hardwood floors (how I miss those), enormous walk-in closets, beveled glass sliding doors, a modern kitchen to kill for, a garage and a separate entrance where Victor intends to open a café/gallery; all this walking distance to the historic center.
I begrudgingly put down Griselda, their eight week old Chihuahua, and we set out for dinner. We had been told that San Luis has scored number three in the world as a “City of Lights” (behind Paris and Prague) because of the way they illuminate their historic district at night. In addition, it has to be the cleanest Mexican city that I have ever visited.
We had a delightful dinner at a restaurant called Apicus http://www.apikus.com/, overlooking the square. As we were leaving it began to rain. We darted into a local gay bar (unlike San Miguel, San Luis has several gay bars) where an extremely young crowd was gathered. So young, in fact, that I began to feel a bit like a chaperone. So after we consumed the free beverages that were included with our cover charge, we departed for our second venue. By this time we had to jump small rivers to get into taxis.
(Apparently, back in San Miguel, it was raining as well, because Christine received a call from one of her co-workers. He had borrowed his boss’s daughter’s car and the water level in town had risen so high that the car was beginning to float down Canal Street.)
Wherever we went, Christine, Mark and I were the only gringos. It was really endearing when I would order in Spanish and the waiters would respond in English, apparently eager to practice. “How’s my English?” one waiter asked me. “Better than my Spanish.”
It was still raining when we left at 4:00 AM. Declining Mark’s offer to take us to yet another venue, we couldn’t find taxis to take us home. “It’s only about five blocks,” Mark said. I didn’t count but those seemed an awfully long five blocks at 4:00 in the morning in the rain.
Mario & Griselda (after running in the rain)
The next day we walked to a breakfast place in an old mansion and later, while Christine was getting a pedicure, we briefly walked the neighborhood. We had a late lunch at a wonderful Sushi restaurant, where the floor was Plexiglas over a goldfish pond. (How traumatic that must be for the goldfish, constantly thinking, “I could be next.”)
Rodrigo and I at the park near Mark & Victor's home
Barely resisting the urge to pack Griselda in our overnight bag, we left for the Casino on our way out of town. Mark has won over $30,000 USD playing the slots since moving to San Luis. We were not so lucky and hit the road after sinking a few hundred pesos each.
The rains have continued daily, usually in the evenings. The grass is growing faster than the gardener can cut it. Two places on the road to our property are either covered by mud or a moving stream, and our poor maid walks to work. She told me that while we were gone, she had to wade through the stream to get to work, and her pants got wet to just below the knee. Since we were not home she removed her pants and worked the rest of the day with a towel around her waist. So off we went to the store where I bought her some rubber “botas”. She is sporting them with pride.
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I have been friends with Marcos for over 15 years now. It nice to read how well he and Victor are doing in their new home.
Mark and Allen in San Francisco
This was a great post, a nice portrait of a city I knew nothing about. Thanks.
-- chris
http://chrisjammm.blogspot.com/
Imagine my surprise when I googled "gay san luis potosi" and discovered your blog. I enjoyed it so much I giggled like a child.
I'm considering a move to SLP or Monterrey to teach English and wondered if even a hint of gayness may reside in such places. I'm adding your blog to my faves! Thank you! -thomasdyer2003@yahoo.com
Hola Carlos (Charles)!
I enjoyed reading your blog about your visit to San Luis Potosi. I have lived in San Francisco for 18 years and now live in Phoenix... but have been thinking of spending some time in Mexico to work on my Spanish.. am 50 and wonder how it would be living in SLP? I'd love to hear your thoughts if you have time? Abrazos! terry
Hola Carlos (Charles)!
I enjoyed reading your blog, especially the info on San Luis Potosi. I lived in San Francisco, CA for 18 years and now live in Phx.. but have been thinking of living in Mexico for a few years to improve my Spanish. I have a possible position in San Luis Potosi and wondered what your thoughts were about living there as a gay man (I'm 50). Would love to hear your thoughts if you have time!
Abrazos!
Terry
Hola Terry, I think you might be stuck on this entry. There is a lot more recent information, including a couple of returns to San Luis Potosi. In short, I'd say if you have the opportunity to live in Mexico, take it. I have no regrets.
Abrazos
Hello Charles! I dont know how, but I came across your blog...I´m living in Toronto now, but I was born and raised in San Luis Potosi, Its so cool how you talk about my city, I love it and miss it so much...It is a beautiful city, I´m glad you enjoyed it :-) cheers!
Fernando.
i will be going back to san luis after 9 years of living in dallas. i would love to meet gay people that live in san luis and make new friends.
i will be leaving dallas june the 17th and i will stay in san luis for a week.
hope you can help.
Jorge - this is an old post but apparently pops up whenever someone googles "Gay San Luis Potosi". If you leave your contact information, I can put you in touch with a friend who lives there.
i found your post by accident when looking up information about San Luis Potosi.
do you know approximately how much it is to rent in SLP in pesos?
newyawkny - I have no idea what rents are in SLP. My friend owns his home. I imagine, like anywhere, it depends on the neighborhood, distance from centro, etc. But in general, rents are much cheaper in Mexico than in the U.S.
thanks so much for blogging this. I am about to move to SLP for work and was a bit worried. After your portrait of it, I am excited. Do you know of any gay groups that meet there? Or places to go besides bars? Thanks
Hi Charles... What an interesting article on San Luis. It is funny but whenever I travel to central Mexico, I (and my family )always pass by San Luis but I have never stopped there. I will be visiting my relatives in Ciudad Victoria and I was thinking about going to San Luis to check it out. I live in Houston TX but I am an eager photographer in love with my country. I'd like to meet some people there. Are you friend Mark and Victor still living there? Would it be OK w you to put me in touch with them?
Thanks, ;)
Carlos
www.photosbyrobcarl.com
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